The Mindful Babes

Why you Lose Yourself When You Start to Like Somebody & What to do Instead

In today's Episode 154: Why You Lose Yourself When You Start to Like Somebody & What to do Instead, get ready to learn about a pattern that you will feel so much freedom around on the other side of breaking it! 

 

Do you feel solid when you’re “completely single” but once you actually develop romantic feelings for someone, you tend to “lose” yourself? 

 

Maybe you..

Get anxious, become glued to your phone, overthink every text exchange, have trouble focusing at work or in other conversations, or you get swept up in fantasizing about a life with that person, etc. 

 

This pattern can make dating feel exhausting, especially if things end up not working out with that person and you feel like you needs a major break from putting yourself out there, thus stalling the process of attracting your soulmate. 

 

In today’s episode Valerie talks about: 

• 5 “below the surface” reasons you may lose yourself when you like somebody 
• Different ways these behaviors may be showing up for you
• Tips around how to stay grounded and feel more calm and empowered when you are dating 

This episode will be very valuable for you on your dating journey!

 

Free Resources:

30 Journal Prompts to Attract an Emotionally Available Man FREE DOWNLOAD HERE

The 5 Types of Emotionally Unavailable Men to Avoid Free Mini Training WATCH HERE

 

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Why You’ve Been Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men

In today's episode, 153: Why You've Been Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men, Valerie dives in to the top subconscious reasons why you find yourself romantically attracted to emotionally unavailable men or have been in the past. 

She also talks about how to shift some of these reasons & program your mind towards attracting a healthy and loving relationship. 

 

Inside this episode you'll hear:

• What emotionally unavailable looks like in a romantic relationship
• Valerie's history with previously being drawn to emotionally unavailable men
• Subconscious reasons why you've felt magnetized to men who are not emotionally available 
• Ways to shift out of old patterns and focus on attracting a healthy relationship 

Free Resources:

30 Journal Prompts to Attract an Emotionally Available Man FREE DOWNLOAD HERE

The 5 Types of Emotionally Unavailable Men to Avoid Free Mini Training WATCH HERE

 

Let's Work Together:

1:1 Dating & Mindset Coaching - Apply Here

 

The #1 Characteristic to Look For in a Romantic Partner

 

In today’s episode I am going to share with you in my opinion what the top thing you want to pay attention to when you are in the early stages of dating somebody that will tell you if long term compatibility is likely. 

 

After being in a romantic relationship for almost 5 years, I can tell you that prioritizing this as a top characteristic has been a GAME CHANGER.

 

In this episode I’ll be sharing: 

• The top characteristic to look for in a potential romantic partner 
• The areas where this characteristic will be very helpful 
• Ways you can see if the person you are interested in has this quality 

30 Journal Prompts to Attract an Emotionally Available Man FREE DOWNLOAD HERE

LET’S WORK TOGETHER: 

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FREE: Trust The Process Free Journal Prompts Get them Here

 

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

Why Your Manifestation is Taking So Long & How to Speed it the F Up!

Is there something that you’ve had on your vision board, or it’s the thing you always journal about and set intentions around and it feels like you’ve been asking for it for years and years but it’s not here yet? 

 

I promise you that you aren’t being punished, or it’s not that you aren’t good enough for what you’ve asked for. 

 

If it was easy as “ask and INSTANTLY receive”, we wouldn’t even be asking for things because we’d have everything we’ve asked for. 

 

If it feels like your manifestation is on delay or you’re doubting if it will ever happen, there are some common reasons it can be getting slowed down & I’m also going to share how you can shift these to start speeding it up! Tune in to have a breakthrough!

LET’S WORK TOGETHER: 

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LINKS TO CONNECT: 

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

 

What Jealousy Is Trying to Teach You

We’ve ALL been there. You see somebody experiencing or having something that is the OPPOSITE of what your current reality looks like and you feel those constricting feelings of envy or wanting to poke holes or cut down what they have. 

 

“She only has that because ______”

“Must be nice….” 

“She has it easy”

 

You are not a bad person when you have jealousy come up for you!  There are actually some valuable and powerful lessons that the EMOTION of jealousy is trying to give to you and in turn will help expedite the process of getting what you want! 

 

Inside the episode you'll learn:
​
-How to unhook the shame from experiencing jealousy
-How to uncover secret desires jealousy is trying to reveal to you
-Ways to use jealousy as a tool for your own healing
-Tips to become a master at shifting jealous moments into fast tracking your desires​

 

Tune in to see how to use jealousy to your advantage and the deeper meaning behind it!

 

LET’S WORK TOGETHER: 

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FREE: Trust The Process Free Journal Prompts Get them Here

 

LINKS TO CONNECT: 

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

Overcome Self-Doubt With These SIMPLE Steps

The silent killer of dreams ISN’T:

Other people, the economy, haters on the internet, your ex, that boy in the 4th grade who made that mean comment to you…it’s YOU. More specifically, it’s your self-doubt around what you believe you can have or achieve in this lifetime. You will only go as far as your current beliefs about yourself will allow you to. 

 

In this episode I will be walking you through some easy and instant shifts you can make to go from doubting yourself to full on belief! You’ll definitely want to bookmark this episode and/or take notes because it will come in handy! 

 

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

 

 

Does The Universe "Test" You?

Have you ever experienced a period of time where it feels like you’re running into challenge after challenge and you have the thought, “wow the universe MUST be testing me”? You may even think “what is this all for?”, “testing me for WHAT?”. If you’ve felt this way, you’re not alone. 

 

In this episode I will be breaking down what I believe is ACTUALLY happening when it feels like we’re getting handed test after test in life. I’ll also be giving you some pointers around how to shift into a place of empowerment when these challenging moments pop up in the future.

If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to hit “follow” so you can get new episodes delivered straight to your library!

LET’S WORK TOGETHER: 

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LINKS TO CONNECT: 

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TikTok: @thevalerieadams 

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

How I Healed From Panic Attacks Related to Driving

Today I am going to give you an intimate, behind the scenes look at how I was able to heal from devastating driving related panic attacks that started in 2022 and had me unable to drive for over a year. This was a huge challenge for me as I previously used to LOVE driving and never could have imagined that in my 30’s I would find myself terrified to drive. 

 

Now on the other side of these crippling panic attracts, driving with ease and peace, In this episode I will share more about my journey of driving-related panic attacks, triggers, the journey I went through, the dark and light moments, how I healed, and what I do currently to maintain this level of confidence and keep my nervous system feeling safe while driving. 

 

If you have suffered from anxiety and panic attacks that have impacted your quality of life; I see you, I understand you, AND just know that there is hope for you. I hope my journey inspires you in some way!

 

If this episode resonated with you and/or gave you some inspiration, please feel free to DM me on Instagram and let me know! I love hearing from you!

 

Episode Resources:

Check out & connect with my Spiritual Mentor, Valeria Maritza if you are interested in deeper healing as well as activating your spiritual gifts on Instagram HERE

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

It’s Time to Upgrade Your Standards - Let me Show You How

How do you know when it’s time to upgrade a standard? Well when there is a circumstance you are currently experiencing that you DON’T like, there’s a very high likelihood that there’s a mismatched standard that you have been available for in order for this to manifest in your 3D reality. 

 

This doesn’t have to be a BAD thing - it’s all just feedback. You can absolutely experience a shift in your physical reality fast, it all BEGINS with your standard. 

 

In today’s episode I will sharing a process you can use to easily upgrade a standard so you can start to create shifts in your 3D reality quickly. Enjoy this episode!

 

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980

When I Focus on THIS, I Make More Money

Have you ever found yourself asking, “how can I get more money?” or some variation of that? Maybe it even brings up feelings of lack or like you have NO idea HOW to create more. That’s because you may not be approaching how to attract more money in your business from the most abundant space. 

 

Asking this ONE question will help you be a match for more financial prosperity in your business (AND deeper impact!) 

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MAGNETIC TO CLIENTS FREE MASTERCLASS: Get access HERE

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Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindful-babes/id1453931980